Looking to tease or be teased by your partner, or just go for a hands-free solo experience? Vibrating panties are a fun way to try something new.

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By Corinne Sullivan and Veronica LopezPublished: May 10, 2024 -

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• Can be controlled by remote or app

• Can get noisy on highest setting

• Strong yet surprisingly quiet vibrations

• Great price for the power

• Battery life could be better

• V affordable

• Can be worn without underwear

• Remote isn’t wireless

• Such a great choice for public partner play

• Impressively quiet (especially given the vibe strength!)

• Only offers straight-forward vibes without patterns

• Actually whisper-quiet

• Compatible with both remote control and app

• Silicone attachment could be thicker, per some testers

• Magnet helps keep it in place

• Both app- and remote-controlled

• Bluetooth connection can be glitchy

• Remote control has impressive range

• Includes adjustable panties

• May not be powerful enough for some

• Vibes are *so* strong

• Remote can be used from over 30 feet away

• Magnetic wings are a bit flimsy, according to a few reviews

• Provides deep, rumbly vibrations

• Design is sleek and discreet

• Can be a bit tricky to keep in place

• V quiet and discreet

• Gentler vibes are ideal for beginners and more sensitive folks

• May not pack enough power for some

• Shape is small and comfy

• Fairly quiet and strong for the price

• Goes into sleep mode after five minutes of idleness

• Unique shape works for all anatomy

• Vibes are SO intense

• Def pretty noisy, so works better in a louder environment

• App provides tons of ways to play

• Contoured design is so sleek

• Panties may not work for everyone

• Syncs to music for unique experience

• Bullet vibe can be used separately

• Vibes aren’t powerful unless music is v loud

• One of the quietest panty vibrators

• Provides app control at budget-friendly price

• Vibes aren’t *super* powerful

• Design is so discreet

• Pretty good value for what’s included

• Could have more powerful vibes, per testers

• Panties come in two different sizes

• Amazing value for what’s included

• Bullet battery life could be better

When you’re new to the whole vibrating panties party, it can be a bit overwhelming knowing where to start, especially with so many options now available. Do you go with an attachment or with something that’s built-in? Should you try it out solo before bringing in a partner? And which settings are best to get the vibes going, anyway? Sex educator Jessica Sánchez, PhD, LMSW, MEd, says that—as with any sex toy—experimentation and patience are key to ensuring you get the most bang for your buck (pun intended).

“If you are a first-timer, allow yourself to explore this experience with zero expectations,” Sánchez says. “Every body and every vulva is different, so allow yourself to be present in the moment and have your sexual exploration lenses on. Pay attention to how your body reacts to the vibrations and process what is working for your body and vulva and what is not.”

If you’re the wearer, vibrating panties make sex all about you, whether you’re the one controlling the remote, or your partner is—and that’s a huge plus, according to ob-gyn Heather Bartos, MD. Plus, they’re great for heightening intimacy. As she explains, “They allow the wearer to be more vulnerable and let their guard down, yet still maintain a sense of control—you can always take them off whenever and if you choose.”

Ofc, don’t forget to do your research. With no shortage of vibrating panties to choose from, it’s important to tune into what you’re hoping to get out of your new toy. A few things to keep in mind:

Stick to body-safe materials

With any vibrator in general, take note of what it’s made of—especially if you have sensitive skin. “In terms of quality, I always recommend high quality medical silicone parts,” says Dr. Bartos. “I wouldn’t get something that’s really cheap and plastic, because this is something that you’re gonna be putting in an area that’s very personal.” She suggests checking your new toy for jagged or rough edges, and disposing of it if it causes any pain or irritation.

Consider how you get off

“Do a self check-in before purchasing by assessing how you experience pleasure,” Sánchez suggests. “A great question to ask yourself first is, ‘Do I experience orgasm by clitoral or internal stimulation?’ This will provide you guidance on which panties to invest in.” For instance, if you love internal stim, then you should invest in something with a insertable attachment, like the ZALO Aya, whereas someone who needs clit stim should go for something designed for pinpoint precision, like the Mantric Panty Vibrator.

Check out the remote and app capabilities

If you’ll be using the vibrating panties with a partner, then certified sexologist Marla Renee Stewart, MA, suggests familiarizing yourself the remote and app capabilities of your panty vibe. A vibrator with a remote (most vibrating panties have them at this point) will allow your boo to control your vibes from across the room, while some app-controlled vibrators can even be controlled from across the world! Think about how you’ll be using your toy and just how much range you’ll need to play the way you want.

Go with something versatile

Another bonus of panty vibes is their versatility—you certainly don’t have to limit play with these toys to just being used with undies. As Stewart explains, these vibrators can also double as external couples’ toys when you hold the vibrator against your vulva or nipples during partnered penetrative sex. However! If you primarily plan on using your new vibe to get your bloomers buzzing, then you should go with a device that magnetically adheres to your panties (or that includes a pair of panties specifically designed to hold a vibrator).

Meet the experts

• Heather Bartos, MD, is an ob-gyn, author, speaker, and host of The Sex Podcast.
• Jessica Sánchez, PhD, LMSW, MEd, is a sex educator and director of student advocacy services at The University of Texas at Arlington.
• Marla Renee Stewart, MA, is a sexologist, intimacy coach, and owner of Velvet Lips, as well as the coauthor of The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay.

Why trust Cosmo?

Pleasure is diverse, and what rocks someone’s world may not be powerful enough to thrill another person. That’s why we rounded up a whole range of highly-rated vibrating panties, from gentle toys for beginners to seriously strong vibes that’ll leave your legs quaking.

Here at Cosmo, we have suuuper high standards when it comes to sex toy recs. Every one of our round-ups adheres to the 15 Percent Pledge and includes toys for all budgets and bodies. And you better believe we read those product reviews (and test many of the brands IRL) so you don’t have to do it yourself.

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